tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4041456273795950735.post7916759650458673704..comments2023-06-01T06:45:30.777-05:00Comments on The Blonde Mule: Happy Or Complacent?The Blonde Mulehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06540036388820868775noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4041456273795950735.post-82675754088577923372009-11-20T09:00:00.090-06:002009-11-20T09:00:00.090-06:00i think the weight issue is one of those things th...i think the weight issue is one of those things that we're never going to be satisfied with. we can decide that we're fine with the way we are and then one event or situation or dressing room makes us second guess everything. is it because we're women? or because of american culture? or because of ridiculous standards of beauty? no idea. <br />but i don't think that you're being complacent. you sound like you've struck a good balance of exercise and eating what you like and being confident the way that you are. my goal is to be mindful without becoming obsessed. to exercise and aim to eat well but not deny myself indulgence. we aren't all going to achieve "the ideal" and if we spend all of our time focusing on it and trying to achieve it, i think it takes away from the enjoyment of life. and it's really too short for that. anyway, that was really long, but i thought you raised an excellent question, which i contemplate often. i think that you're lovely the way you are. go out into the world and be confident! was that too cheesy? sorta cheesy. ha ha.NDhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11844675580067536764noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4041456273795950735.post-32416119940548837882009-11-19T16:17:43.402-06:002009-11-19T16:17:43.402-06:00why don't we talk about it over margaritas.......why don't we talk about it over margaritas....Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05094703094712505676noreply@blogger.com